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Stress Alive - June 2007

Primal Urges

June 27th 2007 06:26
It’s an old and ongoing conversation. The drive toward being a civilized human trumps the more base and primary movers of the psyche. These drives, such as sex and pleasure and feel good and ‘Ooh, ooh, no, not there”…can become quite disruptive to the decorum to which the collective ‘we’ has become accustomed. We are, after all, animals. Just not like those other, more beastly animals.

Crude, guttural, noisy, present in the moment, and unabashedly unabashed.

If those animals were human, they would be quite the violators of the proverbial norm. A belch here, some flatulence there. Vile curse words in your face, and repressed anger in response.


Oh yes. Until it, like many primal urges, seeps like water through the cracks of your very own domesticity. Perhaps the ‘success’ of a man or woman shall be based on the ability to subjugate the primal for the civilized.

Yikes!

I may be in a storm of domestic trouble and calamity. And you know trouble and calamity are quite contrary to order and taming. I’ve been disciplined many times, instructed to walk the line.

I never walk the line!

How prudent is it to focus most energy on repression and suppression if not denial of primal urges? Even as disruptive as they are? Is not such a process and intention a distancing of oneself from the very nature that one is? If so, how can one justify and rationalize and intellectualize the perpetuation of such?

I dunno…

Have I gone astray? To be cognizant of the way we humans in collective fashion have gone astray? You know, from the nature.

For better or for worse?

Let’s just say that there are times that I wonder of the wisdom of moving into our abstract brain-based “reason” at the expense of the very nature that supports and nurtures us from without and within. Us equals human. Human equals living, breathing co-creators of the life of which is lived. Living is today. Today is absent of tomorrow and hopefully not intoxicated by yesterday.


How much of your nature seeps through the cracks of your tamed and civilized being?


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Soft Sounds

June 24th 2007 04:51
My music is soothing and calm, a nice and gentle tool in an overall approach to effective stress management. If you care to listen to some, take a gander at my new site <a HERE.

Let me know what you think.


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Nature Deficit Disorder

June 20th 2007 18:03
What the?!!?? Nature Deficit Disorder? NDD? We psych people come with the durndest things. Whatever may sweep the collective sentiment and reap an abundance of interest and ????

Actually, I was reading about this today, and it makes sense. Our techno-convenient ways of being seem to dangerously distance us from the very nature from which we were born. Hell, I don't need no stinking beach. It will just expose me to the dangerous sun rays anyhoo. And, then what? Why go outside and stand around doing nothing, when I can at the flip of a switch entertain myself, educate myself, socialize, shop, and even create faux personae such that I can become bigger and better and badder than I ever hoped to be should I actually have a tangible engagement with another real person.

Many parents are becoming concerned that their kids no longer want--demand--to go outside. Rather, they have electronic entertainment in the form of television, cell phones, video games, and computers.

Convenient life.

I think that NDD is serious, and places individuals and ultimately the various collectives in a precarious position. A particular sense of perspective that only comes from activating oneself 'out there in the nature' becomes lost when one does not 'activate out there in the nature'. This, it seems, may ultimately lead to a restricted and likely unhealthy way of being in the world. If, indeed, that is being in the world.

The antidote for this emerging NDD may need to include a revisioning of 'place', and a re-educating of the importance of nature. And, that nature includes we humans. As with any disorder, effort is required to shift from one entrenched way to another. Neural pathways do not easily change direction. Yet, with effort and identified purpose, they can be redirected.


Now, WALK AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER!

deorre


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It’s an ongoing debate, yes? One of the wonders of the human experience is that we are able, it seems, to consider our very experience of that which we consider. Go figure?!? Clearly, such a circumstance creates opportunity for discourse, debate, disagreement, and occasional diatribe.

Some operate from the position that humans are inherently bad, so benefit most from seriously external loci of control. You know, the police, the law, the gubment, the boss, and all others that help us understand how best to operate in the world. This is all essentially the parent-child model, and presumes either patriarchically or matriarchically that without oversight and supervision all the little people will create chaos. If not chaos, they will at least make poor decisions and likely find unfortunate consequences


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Nature Abhors A Vacuum

June 13th 2007 14:15
An extremely important element of an effective and comprehensive stress management program is the creation of a foundation for being grounded in one’s life path. Certainly, the more the life path is aligned with one’s innate talents and identified value system, the more invested one is in the path. This investment creates the direction and passion that generates forward movement that is expressive of who one is. This reduces the impact that external stressors can have, and thusly the “knee-jerk” reactions that rarely lead to lasting and satisfying results.

Without such a grounding, foundation, and investment in one’s life path, a vacuum based in idle non-doing is created. This vacuum will bring into one’s life path things that are disruptive, disorganized, chaotic, and seemingly not reflective of who one actually is. This is stress.
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Would You Rather Call It Fear?

June 7th 2007 23:01
Sometimes I think, with our revered intelligence and ability to intellectualize, that we take away the deeper meaning and value of events, experiences, and all else in our human lives. Simply speaking, simple words lead to clearer and more meaningful understanding.

Why then, do we hypothesize about this phenomenology or that eventuality? What could be the value of identifying the etiology of this malady or that peculiarity? And, what drives using terms such as stress dysfunction and stress-related psychogenesis rather than simply speaking of fear
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Where Else Do People Blog?

June 1st 2007 16:51
I recently read that someone is leaving Orble to move on into the blogging sunrise. It got me to thinking about blogging migration patterns, what stimulates such, and just where else do writers share their wares.

WHERE ELSE MIGHT Y'ALL BE FOUND
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