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As If Today Were My Last

November 22nd 2006 12:49
So often when one is nearing death, personal values and priorities seem to emerge and prominently surface from the depths under which they have been buried. Years and years of living a life of superficial immediacy can become a distraction from what has possibly been identified as important, deep, and meaningful. Even the misperception that death is on the approach may be significant enough to feed a re-orientation to the things that possibly matter.

If I can just get through this, I am going to spend more time with my family, many often think or bargain. Or, I am going to go on a rampage of debauchery as if it is up to me and only me to perpetuate the species, others might hedonistically plan. Whatever the goal may be, it is as if now and only now shall this change or life modification take place.


For those of us who are still alive, and plan on being alive for some unspecified amount of time, why not live a life of deep immediacy? An immediacy that is reflective of your valued intent? Why not live your life today as if it were your last day on earth? And then, do the same tomorrow, and on and on and on.

In this immediacy, I think, is where true abundance lives. Whether it is relationships, debauchery, solitude, or whatever else is personally important, why let the value be elusive so that on your death bed you can rue its' absence?

It seems to me that the coming Holiday season is a perfect time to begin living as if today were your last.


Seize The Moment


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Comment by charles

November 22nd 2006 22:33
...and/or when one loses something they cherish, or just a life changing experience that causes one to change...

Definitely living life to its fullest is the way to go.


Charles.

Comment by Deorre

November 23rd 2006 01:41
Indeed, Charles. It's likely more about loss than death in particular.

Kind of generates a re-visioning.

Comment by Lilla

November 23rd 2006 06:12

Comment by Lilla

November 23rd 2006 06:19
Seriously, great minds think alike... I was having this same conversation with my husband this morning... about where we were headed after the kids had grown and gone...[if we make it through another 10 years]...*guffaw*

I have always travelled before marraige and with the prospect of only so many years left to live... I think we do redefine how we want to spend those years... on the road for us I think with a laptop, map and a hot cup of tea... heading for the horizon in a mobile...or somewhere getting of a plane...

...that's personal preference, but this is a great question everyone should ask themselves I think...dying or not... because in reality we are all dying..slowly..anyway...

I think it's what the ancients meant by Carpe Diem, indeed...

Lilla...

Comment by Deorre

November 23rd 2006 09:29
Carpe diem. Got to do what we can and want as much as reality will allow.

Thanks for the comment, Lilla.

Comment by Adrian

December 8th 2006 18:31
Well, the advice is good. People waste life, myself in particular. But I don't know if "as if twere thy last" can be literally followed.

You probably already recognize this in your post. But just to make it explicit...

If this were your last day, would you be working at all? Shouldn't you quit your job?

Shouldn't you eat as unhealthily as you like?

Shouldn't you risk your life in dangerous activities, if you got a kick out of them?

And if you were less sociable, shouldn't you rampage around raping and killing, if this pleased you?

But we don't quit our jobs, and seldom do the less sociable among us rape and kill willy nilly, because we know that in all likelihood this is not our last day, and it would be foolish to live without an eye to consequences and tomorrow...

Comment by Populist Conservative

December 19th 2006 18:22
Based on the topic you covered here, you might like this article/website. They are referred to as "lifehacks" and offer up some pretty interesting suggestions for living.

I like the saying from "The Shawshank Redemption":

"Get busy living or get busy dying."

Comment by Deorre

December 19th 2006 20:40
Well Adrian, I see your point. We all likely play a bit cautiously knowing that we may have a future. Yet, perhaps that is just the bane of our abstracting brain. Without our meta-consciousness, I wonder how much more positive energy and real living would take place.

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